Michael Lohan arrived at his daughters house today with the police to see his younger daughter, Ali Lohan who is staying with her older sister Lindsay.
"I went to the police department concerned about Ali's welfare," Michael Lohan told. "I wanted to check on Ali. I want to make sure she's okay. She's 16 and she doesn't belong there. She's a minor."
Of the incident, Sheriff’s Department spokeswoman Nicole Nishida says: "Michael Lohan called the West Hollywood Sheriff’s and was concerned about the welfare of his [teen] daughter who was with Lindsay Lohan – I don’t know if they were living together. Sheriff’s deputies went out to Lindsay Lohan’s apartment and were given access by Lindsay Lohan and determined that for the [teen] as well as for Lindsay, there was no danger at all. A report was taken and that was it.
Michael told TMZ.com that once inside Lindsay’s apartment, he spoke to his daughter, Ali, who told him "I'm fine, daddy, I'm fine."
Lindsay tweeted afterwards, "I have no choice but to make this public, due to my sister's safety, as well as my own. My ex-dad just WALKED INTO MY APT like the devil's advocate with officers."
Lohan went on to say:
"He has NEVER paid child support, and is marrying a tabloid writer and can barely spell his own name due to his "brain" that has been ruined due to HIS drug use. when will it ever end... it's been going on my whole life with him-hasn't he caused enough pain?... thank g-d for my mommy... w/out her, i wouldn't even know myself."Michael addressed the incident saying, "Ali is being exposed to nightlife and the people Lindsay is surrounding herself with," he said, noting that he wants to meet with his daughter's attorneys to discuss becoming Lindsay's conservator".
"[Lindsay] needs help," said Michael, "and I won't stop until she gets it."
Situations like this only end in disaster. Michael Lohan is only antagonizing the situation by bring bring this up. We feel bad for the whole family at this point. Parents, it is always good to check your child into counseling during or after a divorce or a traumatic event in their life. It seems like the Lohan's didn't do this and it is only leading them into ruin. This is why we ALWAYS stress that children come first during any breakup or divorce. If not handled properly, a bad marriage and divorce can have long-lasting psychological and mental effects.
Some of us are in dysfunctional families like the Lohans and find it difficult to exist in such circumstances. The best thing to do in these circumstances is not exist in them, but to fight to change them. That starts by hitting the root of the problems on the head and addressing them one-by-one. If it requires counseling for the family, then do it. If it requires personal counseling or help, then do it. It may require an intervention or mediation. Whatever it takes to deal with the issues, you have to do it. Living in stress and pain caused by your family is not healthy and cannot cause a downward spiral of problems and misfortunes.
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